Aug 3, 2011

Angel Wraps , Gowns, and Preemie Blankets + NICU Gowns: Updated 2022



Angel Babies

When a tiny baby is born before its time, and is too fragile to survive, usually during the second or early third trimester, there is still birth of the baby.. A loss of this kind is huge for the grieving parents to face, yet most of them still want to both see, and to hold, their tiny little infants. It is a very special part of that grieving process, of letting go of the dreams of what might have been..to hold and to bond with their tiny little one.



What can be even harder is discovering that you have nothing to wrap or dress your tiny loved one in, as nothing will fit ,or is appropriate for the simplest of touches that are possible when holding, and saying goodbye. And so to have your little one passed to you in a rough, or not very attractive, piece of cloth only makes that awareness that much sharper and more painful.



Babies are wrapped up in simple tiny blanket like piece of cloth that most hospital provide. But if the hospital has them, a tiny little quilt or blanket.... made for this purpose by volunteers... can be wrapped around their little one for that holding, bonding, and saying goodbye, time.









Angel Wraps, Preemie and Micro Preemie Blankets + NICU Gowns

Free Patterns, Tutorials and Info on How you Can Help or Donate:

I have just recently made more than a dozen of these tiny little angel wraps and preemie blankets for this very purpose. And gone on to make a dozen more.

It was a deeply moving process for me as I made each and every one of them. I also make lots and lots of preemie quilts and blankets for donation.

My tiny blankets, quilts and wraps are quite simple. They range from as tiny as a 9" square to as large as a 14" one. But each is special and made with love.

Many websites offer a variety of ideas for extra tiny pouches, wraps, blankets, or simple quilts or garments for what is medically termed as 'fetal demise.' And while these words seem harsh to those who have never heard them before, they are simply what the end of life resulting in a still birth is often called.

The idea of a specially made little quiltlet created and made with love and compassion seemed like a wonderful gift to give to our local hospital, so I decided to spend a few days creating some in varying sizes and making a list of other ideas.

I found an assortment of links, files, and free downloadable patterns for a variety of blankets, quilts, pouches and wraps. But making a simple wrap can be as easy as making a simple 9"-12" blanket or quilt that can be tied to create a little pouch like shape for the tiniest of the tiny ones.Some can be tucked under at the bottom for the very tiniest and others can simply have a little half triangle pouch sewed into one corner or be left open to cradle the littlest of babies.


I simply cut two or there squares of fabric sized from 9" to 11". A third square can be folded in half and place as a triangle shape in one corner and sewn in a the same time, or it can be left open as an "Angel Cradle Wrap" as shown by mine, above. The one above is very small and I would add the corner pocket, or cut it more like 12".

I used very thin batting in between or a little piece of flannel, instead of batting. Several of mine are quilted, the others simply have a heart shape quilted on to bind the pieces together. Add some ribbons at the tying points and rosettes or other simple trims and you have sweet little wraps for the tiniest of little angels.



For those who like to use or simply view patterns here are links to free patterns, photos and clothing links for preemies of all stages and sizes. Mine are intended for little ones weighing about 1 lb and about 6" long...a truly sad and yet endearing thought filled with compassion for the losses that so many of us endure.

Adelaide's Angel Wrap

In memory of Baby Adelaide, who did not survive to birth, her mother shares: 


In memory of our angel Adelaide.  To download a pattern for this wrap click HERE
(this pattern and any items made using it are to be used for bereavement support purposes only and are not to be sold)

Angel Heart Baby Wrap




 


Angel Babies Free pattern links:





 

Angel Baby Gowns, Bereavement,Christening Gowns,Blankets, Buntings, Pockets and Wraps

Angel Baby Programs:

https://www.nicuhelpinghands.org/programs/angel-gown-program/

Making angel baby gowns from wedding dresses;

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=IsXaV63OYA4

https://www.wusa9.com/mobile/article/news/local/a-love-story-wedding-dresses-turned-into-infant-burial-gowns/65-553664781

 

Angel Pocket Pattern
 Angel Dress (crocheted)
Beth's Burial Bunting -- knit bunting
Betsy Dey's Fetal Demise Pouch -- knit
Knit Burial Bunting
Ruth's shell Burial Bunting -- crocheted
Angel Wrap
Burial Gown

Burial Wrapper

Jenny's tiny knitted burial gown
Gown for Baby Born Asleep
Long Kimono with Cap -- crocheted
Newborn Angel Gown Set -- crocheted
Debbie Preemie Kimono
Preemie Kimono
Fetal Demise Pouch Patternwww.thepreemieproject.com/volunteer/patterns/

www.bevscountrycottage.com/bereavement-gowns.html

Crocheted Granny Square Pouch: www.bevscountrycottage.com/tonis-pouch.html

Sewn Pouch: www.touchinglittlelives.org/fetaldem.html

Sewn Pouch: www.bbc.co.uk/stoke/my_pages/babywear/sewing/003.shtml

Washcloth pouch with crocheted edge: www.kathyscrochetcabin.blogspot.com/2007/04/burial-pouch-pattern.html

Satin Burial Wrap: www.carewear.org (size small and x-p)







Fetal Demise Pouch 1

fetal demise pouch 2


burial gown and bonnet PDF pattern
- pattern only


preemie burial gown PDF

angel's pocket

bereavement gowns PDF pattern
- pattern only


burial wrap PDF

boy’s internment outfit 

Bereavement Bunting/Gown and Bonnet Instructions

 Bereavement Bunting/Gown and Bonnet Pattern

 ♥  Memory Envelope

 
♥  Preemie Burial Gown

 
♥  Preemie Burial Wrap

 
♥  Angel Wing Bonnet


Tiny Quilts (one block) Patterns: 
Quilter's Anonymous in Lynnwood, WA.

Grecian Square

Ohio Star

Split Rail

Irish Twist Chain





 





Diapers

 

Tiny little diapers for angel babies.

  click here to download the pattern

Additional lovely patterns, knit or crocheted

                                         

 Angel Babies Outfits Info from "Love You More Than a Bus"

 

In Remembrance

SEWING PATTERNS For Angel Babies, Preemies, Micro preemies, and onto into Baby sizes:

A friend shared this list for me. Obviously, some one else put it together, so my thanks appreciation to my friend and to the lovely person who found these links. Many are repeats to mine above, but still worth taking another look at it!

♥  Baby Bib (Snap-On

♥  3-Seam Baby Footies

♥  Baby Blankets

♥  Burp Cloth, Rectangular

♥  Burp Cloth, Contoured 

♥  Burp Cloth

♥  Basic Baby Pants

♥  Beautiful Diaper Bag

♥  Drawstring Bag

♥  Easy Diaper/Tote Bag

♥  Knit Receiving Blanket & Hat

♥  Quilt

♥  Strip Quilt

♥  EZ Pre-Quilted Baby Blanket

♥  Hospital Shirt

♥  Hospital Gown

♥  NICU-Friendly Smocks

♥  Burial Bunting

♥  Memory Envelope

♥  Infant Peasant Dress

♥  Preemie Burial Gown

♥  Preemie Burial Wrap

♥  Angel Wing Bonnet 


NICU and PICU Babies:

Shirts, gowns, smocks, blankets, wraps,

and a 

Snoedel or Snuggle Doll


Making a Snoedel, Snoodle, Snuggle Scent Doll

A 'snoedel' is a small soft fabric 'handkerchief' doll originally created by a Dutch woman wanting a small doll for her premature infant. Today, they are a wonderful way to quickly create a small soft doll that can be kept close to a babie's mother to pick up her scent and then placed near baby--offering reassurance that mama is near.

Popular in major Children's Hospitals for newborns or seriously ill children, they are a wonderful way to keep mom close even when she is unable to physically be holding her baby.

 

Making a Snoedel, Snoodle, Snuggle Scent Doll

Shirts, gowns, smocks, blankets, wraps

And for all all of the precious little ones who do make it, but face so many challenges in their lives after birth! 

All of us have been touched by a precious little one in our life, often someone very near and dear to our own hearts, that faces a myriad of challenges after birth. 

God Bless all of the families, all of the care givers, the doctors, the nurses and the surgeons who work tirelessly in heartfelt service to these little babies who have to fight so very hard to be brought to life, to live, and to face their lives when they do make it through birth, through surgery (s) and often have long recuperation periods both in special NICU or PICU wings of hospitals.  

 Miracles happen every day and what a blessing to families everywhere that surgical techniques have been invented in the past three or so decades that allow these tiny preemies or even full term babies to have their congenital issued corrected with wonderful new life saving techniques. 

It allows little mended hearts and bodies to survive, to grow, and to lead happy and often quite healthy lives.  

So don't forget to make special items for them! You can make anything from special little snuggle gifts that can be kept close to mama or daddy's heart and then kept close to baby in their little NICU or PICU isolette, to tiny NICU gowns with multiple and easy fastener openers to accommodate tubes and wires!

 Make them for your own loved one or to donate to any local hospital's neonatal care unit or to specialty hospitals like the Oregon Health Science Center/Dornbecher Children's Hospital that we have close by in Portland, Oregon.

February is National Heart and Heart Disease Month! Make and donated in honor and memory of loved ones.

 







This, believe it or not becomes a tiny NICU shirt/gown for a little one! Use your imagination and see how this shape becomes the tiny garment below!!


Download the free NICU pattern here






This one below is from Pinterest,  I need to figure out where the original link came from and then I will add it in! 

But here is another version without the open side seams (which I personally like as simple softer pieces of velcro can tab them open or shut. 

But many babies could also use this version below, which velcro opens and closes at the shoulder seam!



Or if you prefer, one like this with side seams and a cross over that can cross on either or both interchangeably, sides!

 Need a pattern? Just use a garment of choice for shape and size and draw around it, to create an approximate piece!

They should be loose, so no need for perfectionism of any kind. Just soft flannels,and the softer velcros.

Some people like snaps, saying that velcro catches, well..snaps take a lot of pressure and its not easy with one hand underneath  to push and one on top..so there are choices you have to decide on for your own preference!

But shop around and touch the velcro on the rolls, some are softer than others for the hooks and loops!

And little simple ribbon ties work nicely, as well!




  



  NICU Craft Buds  

"These teeny, tiny NICU smocks are designed to fit babies weighing 3 to 5 pounds. 

When babies are in the NICU, it can really be a gift to the parents to see their little ones wearing some sort of clothing. (With all the monitors & wires, clothing is difficult to get on.) 

Make one to donate to your hospital’s neonatal unit.


"Download the free NICU smock pattern here


And from Project NICU...baby gowns and a free tutorials as showcased below but it its entirety here:





NICU Gown Tutorial 







 http://badskirt.blogspot.com/2012/12/project-nicu-baby-hospital-gown-tutorial.html

Project Linus: free sewing, knitting and crocheting patterns for babies

link over to their own page as they have their own direct links to all you could want and need in one spot including!!!....

a listing for this, my own dear blog and website:

With Hearts and Hands
Yes, this is a blog site, but do not let that fool you! Quilter Michele Bilyeu has gathered a GIGANTIC listing of links to thousands of patterns that are sure to please any quilter! On her blog you will find great links on her 2,500 Free Quilt Patterns and Huge List of Free Quilt Block Patterns pages. She even has a blog entry in memory of Project Linus Blanket Make a Blanket Day held the third Saturday of February each year. This page is Free Babies, Childrens Quilt Patterns. This is one website you will not want to miss!

Thank you and bless all you do Project Linus!!!

Blanket Measurements

  • Tied Fleece Blankets: Use two pieces of fleece that are 1 1/3 yard each. The blankets need to be large enough to cover an incubator. Here is a great pattern.

  • Quilts: should be large enough to be used for "Tummy Time" when the baby goes home.

  • Knit and Crochet Blankets: At this time, the only knit and crochet blankets needed are WHITE blankets for our infant bereavement program. Blankets sizes needed are from 15 x 15 inches up to 36 x 36 inches.

  • Sewn Blankets: Use two coordinating pieces of soft colorful flannel (40inches each). That will make a blanket that is about 40 X 42. Find the pattern here

Hat Measurements

The following are some specific hat measurements in each size category. You will notice that we ask for the hat measurements to be 1.0"-1.5" smaller than the head circumference measurements for each size category.
This is due to the fact that the hats will stretch.


1–1.5 lbs 2–3 lbs 3–5 lbs 6–8 lbs 9–11 lbs
Hat Circumference 7.5" – 8.5" 8.5" – 10" 10" – 12" 12" – 12.5" 13" – 14"
Hat Length (height) 3" – 3.25" 3.5" – 4.0" 4" – 5" 5" – 6" 6" – 6.5"


Garment Measurements Guide: Size Categories by Pounds


Size categories?
Measurements?
1–1.5 lbs 2-3 lbs 3-5 lbs 6-8 lbs 9-11 lbs
Chest
(circumference)
9" - 10" 11" - 12" 12" - 14" 15" - 17" 18" - 19.5"
Garment Length 11" - 12" 12.5" - 14" 14.5" - 16.5" 17" - 18" 19" - 20"
Wrist to Wrist 11" - 12" 12.5" - 14" 14.5" - 16" 16.5" - 18" 18.5" - 20"
Bottom of Neck (circumference) 2.5" 3" 3.5" 4.5" 5.5"
Head
(circumference)
8.0" - 9.25" 9.75 - 11" 11.25" - 12.75" 13" - 14" 14.5"
Bootie and Sock Length (length from heel to toes) 1.75" - 2.25" 2.25" - 2.75" 2.75" - 3.5" 3.5" - 4" 3.75" - 4.25"


Updated 1/11/2016
Thank you to the Preemie Project dot com
www.thepreemieproject.com

Patterns from AZBlankets4kids:

Baby, Preemie, Double 4-Patch Quilt

Baby, Preemie, One Patch Quilt

Baby, Preemie Quilt, 1 Patch, 2 Borders

Block Party, Preemie to Teen

Baby, Preemie, 9-Patch Quilt, 18”

Baby, Preemie, Double 4-Patch Quilt, 18

Block Party, Preemie to Teen

Charity Baby & Preemie Patterns



Sewn Blankets

Snuggle Tubes

Blanket Sleeper nb/preemie bib PDF
- pattern only


preemie cuddler PDF - archived

positioning shapee or 'snake'

nb/preemie booties PDF

10 min booties PDF
- pattern only


30 min booties PDF
- pattern only


preemie kimono for ICU PDF

serger preemie gown PDF pattern - archived

preemie sleeper PDF pattern

preemie shirt PDF
- pattern only


isolette cover

preemie mittens PDF - archived - pattern only


bubble cover archived

preemie gown PDF pattern

extra small boy gown

diaper shirt PDF

hospital shirt PDF pattern

day gown instructions (pattern below)

day gown - pattern PDF

03/12/08
preemie hat PDF pattern

preemie cuddler 2

preemie fleece hat


Refer here for size guidelines

Knit and Crochets Angel and Preemie and 

NICU baby patterns: 

Free Tutorials


(k)= knit
(c)=crocheted

Ava Lynne Baby Hat (k)

Baby Bear Preemie Hat (k)

Baby Bowties Preemie Hat (k)

Basic Baby Hat (k)

Basic Knit Hat (k)

Basic Preemie Hat (c)

Basic Ribbed Baby Hat (k)

Button Flap Beanie - Preemie (c)

Crossed Texture Hat - Preemie (c)

Crossed Texture Row Beanie - Preemie (c)

 Easy Knitted Preemie Hat

 Preemie Quilt from Project Linus

Half-Double Crochet Preemie Baby Cap (c)

Incredible Expanding Gnome Cap (k)

Joann's Preemie Hat (c)

Juliet Hat (k)

Lightning Fast NICU and Preemie Hats (k)

Melinda's Ruffled Preemie Hat (c)

Preemie Rainbow Beanies (c)

Preemie Ribbed Beanie (c)

Queen of Hearts Preemie Hat (k)

Sewn Knit Fabric Baby Hat (s)

Stretchy Knit Baby Cap (k)

Patriotic Preemie Hats (k)

Butterfly Hat - Preemie (c)

Preemie Pumpkin Hat (c)

Apple a Day (k)

Baby Elf Hat (k)

Christmas Tree Hat (k)

Christmas Hat (k)

Preemie Baby Santa Hat (k)

Baby Quilt Pattern (s)

Easy Baby Quilt Pattern (s)

Easy Baby Quilt Patterns (s)

Preemie Blankets (s)

Baby Blanket Pattern (c)

Four Square Preemie Afghan (c)

Snowflake Kisses Baby Blanket (k)

Teddy Bear Baby Blanket (k)

 Waffle Blanket (k)

Teddy Bear Square (c)

Teddy Lovey (c)

Thermal Stitch Preemie Blanket (c)


Burial Wraps

Angel Pocket (k)

Angel's Pocket (s)

Angel Wrap (c)

Angel Wraps (s)

Burial Pouch Pattern (c)

Fetal Demise Pouch (s)

Knit Angel Wrap (k)


Preemies Knit and Crochet

Receiving Blanket (s)

Basic Teddy Bear (c)

Bear Pair Teddy Bears (k)

Better Bear (c)

Brenda's Bears (k)

Buttercup Bear (c)

Cashew Teddy Bear (k)

Curly Teddy Bear (c)

Heartfelt Bear (c)

Polar Bear (c)

Smart Teddy Bear (k)

Teddy Bear (k)

Teddy Lovey (c)

Two Tone Teddy (c)

Jester Hat (A Preemie Project beginner favorite)

Michelle's Preemie Booties and Hat

Angel Lace Baby Cap

Mock Cable Baby Hat

Elegant, Simple Baby Blanket

Heirloom Knit Baby Blanketpresto! Preemie 
Hat

No Button Baby Booties


Crochet Patterns




♥  Special Note 

You can donate angel wraps, blankets, gowns to any local hospital in your city. You can donate Preemie blankets and NICU gowns to any major hospital that supports special programs and donations.

Neonatal intensive care unit - Salem Hospital

Neonatal Intensive Care Unit - PeaceHealth (Eugene OR)

And best of all, here in Oregon, we are blessed to have an amazing regional hospital that rival those in Seattle and Los Angeles. Our services all hospitals and states in our surrounding vicinity. 

Oregon Health Science University (OSHU)/Neonatal Intensive Care Unit 



Free Babies, Child's, Preemies Quilt Patterns

And of course, this page:

And from Project Linus:

Easy Preemie Quilt

and...
My complete List of Preemie, Baby and Children's Quilts:

Free Babies, Child's, Preemies Quilt Patterns

Not yet alphabetized:
♥  Baby Bib (Snap-On) — This links to a tutorial that is easy to follow and very cute!
♥  3-Seam Baby Footies — This links to a pattern for baby shoes/footies.
♥  Baby Blankets — Blankets of various sizes.
♥  Burp Cloth, Rectangular — A tutorial for making a simple burp cloth.
♥  Burp Cloth, Contoured — Simple, cute tutorial and pattern for a contoured burp cloth.
♥  Burp Cloth — A tutorial for making a simple burp cloth by Early Buds.
♥  Basic Baby Pants — A tutorial and pattern for a pair of baby pants.
♥  Beautiful Diaper Bag
♥  Drawstring Bag
♥  Easy Diaper/Tote Bag
♥  Knit Receiving Blanket & Hat
♥  Quilt
♥  Strip Quilt
♥  EZ Pre-Quilted Baby Blanket .
♥  Hospital Shirt
♥  Hospital Gown
♥  NICU-Friendly Smocks
♥  Burial Bunting



If you would like to join in, online, with a group that does this special work:
please check out this group and think about joining in and making some tiny little donations of your own:

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/CaringforCooper/

OR:

Refer here for size guidelines


My other "With Heart and Hands"

links for babies and children projects, tutorials and fee patterns:


Sewing for Baby: Creating a Modern Baby Layette


Free Babies and Childrens Quilt and Sewing Tutorials, Patterns, and Links: Updated 2016 


Angel Wraps and Preemie Blankets + NICU Gowns: Updated


 


 Michele Bilyeu blogs With Heart and Hands as she shares a quilting journey through her life in Salem, Oregon and Douglas, Alaska. Sewing, quilting, and wildcrafting, with small format art quilts, prayer flags, and comfort quilts for a variety of charitable programs. And best of all, sharing thousands of links to Free Quilt and Quilt Block Patterns and encouraging others to join her and make and donate quilts to charitable causes.   Help us change the world, one little quilt, art quilt, and prayer flag at a time!

39 comments:

Pat said...

What a kind, caring heart you have to give so much to this project and also to search out and provide all these links for others to use. May God's blessings be upon you for doing this!

Betty Lou said...

Oh Michelle, this post really touched my heart. For many years I have crocheted little caps from premie to newborn size, made many quilts for newborns, one year my goal was 50. This project is do able, I am going to check out the web sites. Thank you for sharring your project.

Debi said...

What a fantastic thing you are doing Michelle. I have so much baby flannel, I need to make some of these also. Thanks for touching my heart and giving me the incentive to make a dozen of these myself.

Unknown said...

OMG thank you so so so very much for your wonderful quilts and you taking the time to blog about them, you see i was one of these babies born 3 moths to early, My twin did not make it, we were 1 lb 11oz at birth. and my mother didn't have anything for us, my mom bought doll clothes that were still to big for me. i know my mom would have loved something to have to remember my sister other then the memories and pain, she's was with the ones she loved when my sister passed, but she still suffers from time to time all these years later.

because of you and your blog post. I am going to quilt angel blankets and preemie blanket for our hospital.

Thank you again
God bless
Adele in Colorado

Unknown said...

Michele... God bless you for the compassion you have for the wee ones. Thanks for sharing the patterns with us.

God bless and keep you,
Sonia

Valerie the Pumpkin Patch Quilter said...

This post brought me to tears! Something I never think about, but I love that you have and what a heart you have to make these little blankets. I have had two miscarriages, and have been blessed to have three healthy beautiful little girls...I cannot imagine the pain the parents of a stillborn child go through...and even though it still hurts, this is just such an amazing thing to do.

Angie said...

You make this world of ours such a brighter, warmer place just because you, an angel, exist here on earth. sharing your love and beauty with even the tiniest of spirits. Thank you, Michele, for being you. I count my life richer for having you share my daily world.

Lynne said...

How lovely of you! My heart wept as I read your post and looked at the tiny blankets.

May God bless you as you reach out in love to others you don't even know.

Debra Dixon said...

You are truly an angel.

The Quilting Elf said...

YOU are my favorite angel for sharing your thoughts and patterns for wrapping the littlest ones amongst us. Bless your heart.

libbyquilter said...

a very difficult thing to think about but you are so right and your generousity is a shining star for all of us to follow.

:-)
libbyQ

Amy @MoMomma said...

I can't tell you how much these tiny homemade pieces will help a mom and baby. Those babies that do make it and grow strong can also benefit from snuggling in something that fits them well in the NICU. It's a joyous occasion when you get to hold your preemie for the first time! My 1st son was 1 lb 3 oz at 30 wks. We had to wait 4 wks to hold him for the first time and was wrapped in a giant towel - we could barely tell he was in there. This would have been amazing. Let me know if you have any connections in Arizona for hospitals needing these donated. I'd be happy to help.

Barbra said...

(((HUGS)))!

Anonymous said...

You were just featured on Craft Gossip where I discovered your blog. LOVE your blog, and especially loved this post. So dear it brought tears to my eyes. You really do sew with your heart and with your hands!

Anonymous said...

I just want to say that those who perform this kind, angelic, and selfless act of service are to be blessed. My grandson was anencephalic and was very premature and not born alive. When I walked in the hospital room, and got to hold that sweet baby, he was dressed in a tiny, beautiful satin gown, a sweet delicate hood pulled up over his head, and wrapped in a beautiful small blanket. Oh, how grateful I was for those who made this for my angel grandson. They kept our grandson’s body covered and protected, and gave us time to hold him, and mourn his loss. Thank you thank you thank you!

Michele Bilyeu said...

Hi Michele!

I just had to tell you…this is such a beautiful idea and such a beautiful quilt! I absolutely adore the name “Angel Wrap” so wonderfully appropriate:)

Best of Luck “Wrapping little Angels!”

Sandy Newhart via craft gossip.com

Anonymous said...

Hi Michele,
This is a very nice and beautiful gesture by sharing these quilting sites with us.Iknow it must have taken you a few years to accomplish.
Thank you again for all your dedication to other quilters around the world.P.S. Here is a web site all quilters may-be interrested in.
http://www.batt-mart.com
"GOD BLESS ALL YE QUILTERS"
Shelia Taylor from WV

Anonymous said...

A truly a caring person and generous to all. Thank you, and God Bless You!!:)

The Kimmels said...

Thank you for making these quilts. You are really going to bless a baby-loss mom's heart. One of our twins died after he was born at 25 weeks. We would have loved to have something like this to wrap him up in. Thank you again for making these. I plan on making some to take to the hospital where our sons were born.

Nancy said...

God bless you for doing this. It is so important that we give back to these most helpless little ones. These are so needed. When I first discovered Care Wear, I read a newspaper article that said some hospitals just used paper bags and I thought "not on my watch". My own preemie was my impetus and he is 32 now and I have made a mission of providing for these most fragile of babies. (( ))

Michele Bilyeu said...

Please check out Nancy's group for helping out these precious preemies at:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/CaringforCooper/
and think about joining in and helping them out with some little quilts etc. of your own. It's such a blessing to help out these tiniest of little ones!

Unknown said...

Thank you for this. I lost my baby at 17 weeks. I delivered last Sunday and buried my angel Casey yesterday. I went searching for something I could do for others in my situation, and this is certainly it. And having 3 hospitals within an hour of where I live, I can keep myself busy and honor Casey. Thank you so much.

Stitching Noni said...

Oh what a lovely thing to do for these precious babies and their families
These little quilts are just beautiful
You truly are one of God's angels on Earth
Hugs x

Lynne said...

Wow! So many links, thank you. The quilts we make for babies "born asleep" are 24" square. The batting is flannelette instead of conventional wadding.

Wendy H, AB Canada said...

Thank you, thank you so, so much for both your work and this page. As a mother who has gone through the "Born Still" nightmare, I cannot tell you how important these little gifts, mementos and blankies truly are to we who have lost. I was fortunate enough to have been given a bereavement blanket, outfit and booties when our Angel daughter, Kaitlyn Gillian, was born - it's been almost 21 years now, but on each anniversary of our great loss I still go to my cedar chest and bring out that blanet and other momentos to hold in my hands. They are the only tangible proof that my baby existed, and as such...priceless. I was never able to thank the person(s) who had been involved in making them, but I will forever be grateful to them for gifting us with our baby's "hello and goodbye" outfit.
Gratefully and with kind regards,
An Angel's Mother

Unknown said...

You are a true heavenly angel to do this ,God bless you!!! There will be a special place in heaven for you!!!

Unknown said...

So many links,WOW!!! lot's to work with!!!

You are a true angel on earth, there will be a special place in heaven for you!!! Thank You for doing this and remembering those littlest of the little!!! May god bless you!!!

Les said...

I live in rural Western TN and there were not any groups making any gowns for our babies. We have started a group, have 6 gowns and 3 ladies sewing. We have found some great patterns thanks to your site! One question I have, where can I get white stockinette? I can only find it in natural. Thank you again for your blog, patterns, links, etc. You have been a huge help to us!

Michele Bilyeu said...

Bless every single one of you Les, and thank you so much!

Michele Bilyeu said...

Bless you Adele. So incredibly glad you survived but how sad about your twin. And paying it back with sewing for others is the best feeling in the world!

Michele Bilyeu said...

Thank you, Amy and blessing for you and your child as well. Any hospital any where will most likely be delight to receive these precious items!

Michele Bilyeu said...

Oh Kimmel family thanks for stopping by and sharing your story. I am hearing so often about twins and how one did not make it. Heartbreaking. Blessings to you and yours!

Michele Bilyeu said...

My heart goes out to you in all ways Amanda. Keep the blessings going and now that Casey is loved and will never be forgotten.

Michele Bilyeu said...

Angels babies are just that. I send blessings to you and yours. Beautiful Kaitlyn Gillian always connected to her mama's heartstrings. So glad you received those precious gifts as well as memories of such deep love for this baby that lives in your heart.

Michele Bilyeu said...

Perfect Lynne!! Thanks for sharing that!!

Unknown said...

I live in a very rural area in Tennessee and work as a Labor and Delivery Nurse. We do not have a NICU but we still have around a dozen or so fetal demise and stillbirths each year. It's hard trying to sort through what baby doll clothes we can gather up to find something good enough to put on somebody's angel so they can get their last looks without seeing all the flaws sometimes in front of them. I would love for our hospital to be able to be blessed with some of these homemade items made with love and tenderness. If you could help us,please get in touch with me @ lpntn00@yahoo.com.

Michele Bilyeu said...

Bless your heart! I am connecting you with someone with a wiling heart and ready hands to help you with this!

To both the the writer of this request and the lovely volunteer who just wrote me willing to help others:

Thank you for all you do and may you continue to be blessed as you bless others!

I hope you both connect and many families will feel the loving care extended by your hearts and hands united!
Michele in Salem, Oregon www.with-heart-and-hands.com

Unknown said...

Hello! My name is Sherri. I'm a Director for a rural hospital in KS. Can you help assist me in getting donations of these items for our families here that experience a premature infant death? Thank you so much! srobidou@gchks.org

Michele Bilyeu said...

I try to reply personally to requests, but in general, check your local hospitals volunteer services department for a great place to donate too. They also should have lists of their local donor organizations or individuals that can help you find those who quikt6, knit,crochet or sea for charitable causes in your community. Blessings to all.